5 Ways Dads Impact Teen Self Esteem | Penn State Study | Orlando Counselor Jim West

Article Author & Adolescent Expert Jim West interviewed by Fox 35 on the Dad Effect

Orlando Counselor Jim West highlights the pivotal role fathers play in their teenagers’ self-esteem, drawing attention to the profound “dad effect.”

Jim West, Orlando Teen Counselor area renowned expert in teen counseling interviewed above by Fox 35 News.

Jim West emphasizes the findings of a Penn State study that underscores the importance of positive father involvement. This involvement, characterized by quality time and emotional support, is closely linked to higher self-esteem levels in adolescents.

During an interview with Fox 35, West elaborated on the benefits of fathers spending quality time with their children, as identified in the Penn State study:

1. Social Skill Development in Boys: Boys who observe their fathers’ interactions in social settings are more likely to develop effective communication skills and confidence. Active father involvement also mitigates risks related to addiction and legal troubles.
2. Setting High Standards for Daughters: Daughters often look up to their fathers as a benchmark for desirable traits in potential partners. Fathers who engage in thoughtful activities, like planned date nights, not only strengthen their bond with their daughters but also set high relationship standards, making it harder for less respectful suitors to gain favor.
3. Reduced Delinquency and Peer Pressure: Teens spending ample time with their fathers are less likely to engage in delinquent behaviors or succumb to peer pressure. Activities such as attending sports events, enjoying movies, or participating in outdoor activities like camping contribute to this positive outcome.
4. Educational Aspirations: There’s a direct correlation between the amount of time fathers spend with their sons and the sons’ educational achievements, including college completion.
5. Preventing Delinquency: A lack of quality father-son time is associated with an increased risk of delinquent behaviors.
6. The Importance of Family Dinners: Regular family meals provide an opportunity for open communication and help parents stay connected with their teenagers’ lives.

Dads and daughters

For daughters, the mere presence and engagement of a father can be incredibly affirming. Fathers are encouraged to spend meaningful time with their daughters, expressing pride in their achievements and reaffirming their love and respect. This foundation of respect is crucial for daughters in forming healthy expectations for how they should be treated in relationships.

What are some small Adjustments Mom’s can make?

West also advises mothers to enhance their impact by joining in these activities, promoting a more cohesive family dynamic. Flexibility in family routines and occasional relaxation of rules can further enrich the family experience.

James L. West, MA, LMHC, NCC, is a respected figure in the field of mental health counseling, specializing in adolescent and family dynamics. For families seeking guidance on enhancing teen self-esteem or navigating other adolescent challenges, West and the team of counselors at Total Life Counseling Center offer expert support. With locations in Orlando, Winter Park, Lake Mary, Clermont, and East Orlando, Florida, the center is well-equipped to assist families in fostering healthier relationships. Additionally, Total Life Counseling Center provides EMDR therapy for anxiety and trauma and offers alternative ADHD treatments. For professional assistance, contact the center at 407-248-0030.

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Author: James L West, MA, LMHC, NCC, Orlando Communicator, Author, Coach and Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Call now for help with your teen 407-248-0030